When someone took off the bachelor, by deciding to proceed with choosing life partners, through marriage, that person is ready both physically and spiritually to become a head of household. Period which is no longer live alone. There is one angel who faithfully accompanied his side. There's a new life must be lived by a husband, unlike when he was the single. Perhaps in the days before he married, often spent time outside, often come home at night, more activity outside. So when he was a husband, there will be limits through mutual commitment to maintain and understand each other through life in the household.Part of family life, perhaps it's the right word for a husband and wife. Because they are always in the lead kehidupa together. Either in a state of grief and in a state of pleasure. In the event of problems outside the family, the family will surely be a reference for the discussions to find a solution to the problem. Husband as head of household, have kwajiban which should be implemented and also have rights that must be met. Wife is not seen as number two, but the wife is seen as the first phatner in his life.when they had one child, the husband changed his status to become a father as well as the wife will turn into a mother from her child. So should a father and mother would become role models of son, when he was growing up. husband as head of household would be required to finance the needs of families. Both the physical and non physical needs. Physical needs such as the need to eat, drink, shelter. Clothing, vehicles. Then the non-physical needs such as affection, attention, loyalty and sincerity.a father is needed by his wife and children, closeness they need it, maybe we could see the phenomenon is now the number of divorce cases households and ultimately lead to a child custody battle. News about it, we can see on the television show but from other media like print and radio media. This is caused by the proximity of a father and mother are still lacking in the communication is established.Triggers of family breakdown is caused by several factors. Among the factors economy and psychology. Financial services is often a lack of a father's income to family breakdown. Demanding needs of lead, should be sufficient revenue income of the family needs. This is when a father can not meet these requirements then it will certainly trigger will cause problems. And will eventually trigger domestic rift.However, apart from economic factors also have other more important factors, which could lead to the destruction of the household. That is the psychological factor. In the ship sailed home whoever, whatever their social status, no matter the president, ministers, directors or even a pedicab driver. Must have experienced psychological problems. For example from everyday life appear different attitudes. Desire to diverge. If the husband and wife could not finish then this would be a domestic conflict. Could eventually lead to divorce.The closeness of father against son and her partner is his wife. Must be maintained. Sincerity, and attention to both is needed. Although for a father is usually busy work activities. But as a good father would not let a dry family affection. He could at least take the time when no work activities office. To close with her family. Least once a week to vacation. Working on joint activities such as helping the cook in the kitchen. Caring for the home garden. Playing with his son. This will be the emergence of a sense of closeness to the family of a father.
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